So, I am a size 16 curvy lady. When BDH married me I was a size 12. He does not find me any less attractive because my assets have grown a little plumper. He seems to almost like the fact there is more of me to love. I am beginning to feel comfortable with myself at this size. I am wearing a D cup bra, and have a curvy tummy, waist, and hips. I am stunning in his eyes, and because of his praise and desire for me, I feel beautiful.

It does not matter what size a woman is. Big, little, tall, short, skinny, plump, BBW, or anything else. What matters is what is in her heart and how she feels about herself. For me, the one who holds my life in his hands has given me the confidence to feel like a Goddess. When I stand before him, I know he wants me. Sometimes he runs a hand along my back and the feel of my skin is pleasing to him. I am loved, treasured, and adored.

I am a woman. I have thighs. I have arms that are soft and plump. My breasts are full, and my behind is round. I am alright with what I look like and who I am.

Now, the purpose of talking about my pleasantly plump self. ABC and Fox networks did not want to run an ad for Lane Bryant which featured a plus size model. The cited it showed too much cleavage. However, the have an ad for Victoria's Secret that looks like something one would see at a Strip club. I guess breasts are okay, as long as the rib cage is visible.

tkc

p.s. to see the "too much cleavage" ad, use the following link.

http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474978195768